Education is Key...Let Me Educate You.

Ladies,

To accept being called a bitch, hoe, ratchet, slut is unacceptable. You should have so much more class and respect for yourself than to allow some dude to get in 1.) your mind, 2.) the way of your friendship, 3.) into your heart and 4.) between your legs at your age. The whole "I just wanna show him i love him" line is complete BULLishh'. You should show YOURself you love you by keeping your innocence rather than allowing some guy who's probably said the same ishh' to like 6-7 girls or is saying it to them (including you) at the same time.

Another thing, STOP texting boys about sex! One that gets sent right in a forward to either his other chick or ALL his boys. You all make yourself sound so educated on boys and won't let them play you but you never put yourself two steps ahead or take his hand off your eyes to realize what he's doing is right in front of your face.

Moving on though, if you're gonna allow a boy who's pants is off his ass to be in a relationship with you...you're stupider than i thought. A boy who has ANY type of class, swagg or whatever you wanna call it should never be walking like he's waddling that's unattractive and it gives off the impression that he's not worth your time (which he isn't anyways).

Clothing: Wow where should I start? So if you walk out the house and you automatically get goosebumps on whatever is showing..you officially have on NO clothing. You don't wanna be a hoe or "ratchet" and yet you walk out the house with nothing on. Let's be serious here. If you wanna be taken seriously have a little more class about yourselves. Look your age don't act your age..there's a BIG difference.

Last but not least, allow a man to call you by your name rather than baby, boo, sexy, cutie, and all that ishh'. One, if he's calling you that all the time, he has another chick. Two, it's a BIGGER turn on (or should be) for a man to be like "(Insert your name here), how are you doing?" Rather than "What's up Baby?" It shows he has respect, class, and swagg. Which is exactly what you need. If you're AROUND maturity, you'll become more mature and you'll grow more. Finally, when you're talking to someone (not going out) don't be afraid to have someone else to talk to. You never know when things are or aren't gonna work out. That means, one, you're allowing yourself not to be hurt and two you have someone else to compare to so you know how to choose the better man.